Women and men are evidently treated differently as people when surrounded by violence, yet their behaviors and emotions towards violence are also at odds with each other . When the topic of the violence of the revolution is raised around Marji, she becomes a very sentimental and patriotic character. After the first bombing near her home Marji says to her father “Dad! Do you remember what you learned during your military service? Will you go to war? Will you fight? ” (81) When the violence broke out Marji was worried about her father's health, ensuring that he would not have to fight if the violence continued to escalate. Marji, like many other women, did not react with further violence when violence first struck. Although their emotions were running high, they remained calm in the face of all the terrifying events around them and did not fight violence with more violence. Marji’s mother echoes this idea that women are more caring and forgiving in times of violence as she speaks to Marji: “…it is not up to you and me to do justice. I would even say that we must learn to forgive" (46). This quote reveals that Marji's mother believes that there should be no more violence and that the last thing we need to do is create more violence to stop the violence. The idea of ​​creating peace without violence represented through her and Marji