Also, it is part of the seven cornerstones of integrative counseling. Self-awareness and humility are intrapersonal qualities (as cited in Brewer & Peters (n.d.), “Integration of Psychology”). These qualities are essential to building a relationship with a consumer. It reflects genuineness, empathy and compassion. Above all, it is a lifestyle. It demonstrates that the love of Christ is in the heart of the counselor and therefore, my best interest is to help the client thrive and transcend all negative experiences endured during the divorce process. I will help my client conceptualize that she should not give power to the negative experience to define her future. Growing and transcending will allow my client to heal and take that negative experience and transform it into a meaningful and purposeful personal experience.