Their visitors had difficulty complimenting or giving gifts to the child without knowing his or her gender. They wanted to compliment her as a woman on her beauty and him as a man on his strength, but they could do neither. In the gift department they received very gender-specific items, such as a pink tracksuit and a football helmet, which they were thrilled about, but the givers were just embarrassed and confused by not being clear about X's specific gender. At school, being stuck in certain activities like basketball with the other boys or basket weaving with the girls. Social identity is the sense of who we are based also on the group we belong to. Traditionally, males are perceived as stronger, better at sports and rough, while females are thought of as softer, attracted to arts and crafts and objectified by their feelings.