The crisis presented in this essay by Shermayne is her trying time to deal with it. The reason I treated this situation as a crisis is because going through a divorce is never an easy task. Starting over after a divorce is one of the most difficult things a person will have to do. Losing the person you promised to love and be with forever and ending in divorce can be simply traumatizing for everyone involved. Remaining children and spouse may take time and it may be difficult to adjust to the new life without the other parent/spouse. After losing your spouse and trying to adjust to a new life as a bread winner in the family. After being married for thirty years and dealing with the ups and downs of marriage, the challenges of being married to a truck driver, dealing with numerous infidelities, divorce, and putting the needs of others before your own happiness has been a kind if future. First of all, being a truck driver already comes with these stereotypical things that make that job worthwhile for a long time, like being a hustler. In this case that stereotype was absolutely true. Secondly, dealing with infidelities is always a hard pill to swallow when it comes to marriage because you are in this network with someone you love and you believe that if you keep taking them back they will learn their lesson, in some cases that might be true but in most part of the cases it is not. Finally, Third, putting everyone else's needs before her own in Shermayne's situations, she let her ex-husband go out and fulfill her dreams while she stayed at home with three children, she stated that she wanted to be supportive and believes that he is what a good wife should do
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