Talk positively about yourselfTell a good story about yourself. Make people like you by painting yourself in a fun, positive light. It is well known that the more you like yourself, the more people will like you, while the more you hate yourself, the more people will find something wrong with you. just like you do with yourself. When you talk, find things to be grateful for. Focus on the abundance you have in your life. Don't hide your failures, but let people know that you have learned and grown from them. Let people see how proud you are of yourself and how much potential you have in life. But don't brag about yourself! Don't try to make yourself look perfect. You're not. They know it and you know it, so don't pretend like you do. Talk about yourself in a positive but humble tone.3. Listen More Than You Talk Nobody likes someone who talks about themselves all the time. I had a friend who would call, talk about herself for fifteen minutes, and then end the conversation without asking about me. I liked him less and less every time he called me. She liked me a lot,