Some people say that “No one should be pushed, some children are pushed so much that they don't want to move forward at all. They are under too much stress and this makes school more difficult for them. Some parents push too hard and make their children feel like their parents don't love them or want them around. Others say “How will they ever become something without giving up. I mean, think about it, when you push me, they go for gold, but when you don't push them, let them go it alone, then they will simply fail and become nothing in life, and they won't have the courage to actually do it. achieve anything in life and go for it.” (Do adults hurt children by pushing them to achieve?) I agree with both of these statements. Kids like having to figure things out on their own, but parents want to tell them what not to do and what to do because they've already experienced these things the hard way. Be it school, social events or even personal experiments. Parents are always attentive to their children, some more than others. For example, some parents will allow their children to go out whenever they want. If we're interested in a sport or activity, let's try it. We may not like it, or we will. It just doesn't seem very fair for parents to go and stick us in everything, where we have no time for childhood, just like Kevin. The Overscheduled Child: Avoiding the Trap of Overparenting believes that enrolling children in too many activities is a nationwide problem. Children are under great pressure from their parents to do their best or be involved in the best activities so that later in life they will have a better childhood, full of joy and great memories. In some cases this is correct, but only if the child wants to do all those activities. Only the child can decide what makes them