The need to be the best is highly regarded in our society. There are shows on television where couples compete with each other to see who has the best dress, venue, food and overall experience. One of these most popular shows is Four Weddings. The winner of this show will have an amazing honeymoon. Brides attend other people's weddings and judge them very harshly. They seem to rate themselves very low to increase their chances of winning. This is an example of how marriages are used as a source of competition between