For example, let's say you were close to your grandmother and when she passed away she gave you a necklace to keep. Well, if your ex-spouse wants it all, I think it's unfair for him to have it. If it was your property from the beginning, you should keep it after the divorce. Now, if there is something they wanted and bought together, you should make a responsible decision about who gets to have it. It is best not to argue about this decision in front of the child because he will feel confused and upset. Some people even enter into a prenuptial agreement to ensure that they can keep what was rightfully theirs from the beginning of the marriage until the end of the divorce. Like Jessica Biel and Justin Timberlake for example, Jessica got a prenuptial agreement in case he cheated on her, she would walk away with a divorce and an agreed upon sum of $500,000. Another example is Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban, Nicole got a prenuptial agreement that ensures her safety in case her husband relapses. Now they have a deal of 640 thousand for every year of marriage if he starts abusing illegal drugs again and he doesn't get a single penny. It's not just celebrities who get prenuptial agreements, it's everyone. If you're comfortable with a prenuptial agreement in case your marriage ends, that's fine too. Sometimes dividing things in a divorce can cause financial problems. Usually one of your parents gets the house you originally lived in. Then the other parent who has moved will have to find a place, this puts stress on an adult because they want to make sure that the environment their child lives in is safe. It is also stressful for a child because you may be unsure about your new home. Trying to find a home in this economy is hard enough and it's even harder for single moms. They have to take care of their children, find a job if they were stay-at-home moms, take care of bills, cook and